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A pre-engagement ring that promises nothing while implying everything.
means A ring given between friends (or almost-more-than-friends) to signal closeness and commitment without the legal or romantic weight of an engagement ring.
from The phrase is a 20th-century social invention rather than an ancient one — 'friendship rings' rose through school and teen culture, especially from the mid-1900s onward, as a low-stakes way to formalize affection. They borrow engagement-ring logic (a circle, worn on the hand, implying bond) while dodging its vocabulary, which is exactly why the word 'ring' carries so much more promise than the word 'friendship' wants to admit to.
- origin
- Victorian lovers used them to dodge betrothal rules
- claddagh style
- heart facing in means taken, out means available
- modern use
- often a quiet trial run before an actual proposal
- irony
- platonic name, romantic subtext, nobody admits it