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The person who lights the match, then watches everyone else choke on the smoke.

means A person or thing that deliberately ignites conflict, chaos, or action — originally literal kindling, now mostly used for people who stir trouble on purpose.

from Straightforward compound of 'fire' and 'starter' — functional, literal English for the stuff (or person, by extension) that gets a flame going. The figurative sense, for someone who sparks drama, controversy, or unrest, rode in on the back of 'spark' and 'kindle' as fire-metaphors for conflict, which English has leaned on for centuries. No hidden backstory here — the word means almost exactly what it says, which is part of its dark comedy when applied to people.

origin
early humans rubbing sticks, now rubbing people the wrong way
office version
forwards the email that burns the whole department
skillset
friction plus flammable material, metaphorical or literal
warning
rarely stays to help put it out
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