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Confidence wearing a costume it hasn't earned yet.
means The quality of being artificial or insincere — a surface that doesn't match what's underneath.
from Built from 'fake' plus the suffix '-ness.' 'Fake' itself is murky in origin — it surfaces in English criminal slang around the 1800s, possibly linked to German 'fegen' (to sweep, polish up, or swindle) or thieves' cant generally, where looking legitimate was half the con. The '-ness' is the ordinary Old English suffix for turning a quality into a noun, the same one in 'kindness' or 'darkness' — so 'fakeness' simply names the state of being fake, formally.
- spots itself
- copies the flex, never the struggle behind it
- smells of effort
- real things look effortless, fake things announce effort
- social contagion
- one faked laugh makes a room perform sincerity
- shortest lifespan
- collapses the moment someone asks a follow up question