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the face that makes a funeral feel like a party

means Stern, gloomy, and forbidding — humorless to the point of seeming carved from stone.

from From the Latin 'durus,' meaning hard, by way of Scots, where 'dour' came to describe a hardness of temperament rather than of substance. The same 'durus' root gives us 'durable,' 'endure,' and 'duress' — so a dour person is, quite literally, hard to be around. The traditional Scottish pronunciation rhymes with 'tour,' fittingly grim.

origin
From Latin durus, meaning hard or harsh
pronunciation
Rhymes with tour, though many insist on power
old meaning
Once described stubborn, obstinate people, not just gloomy ones
scottish trait
Long stereotyped as the dour national temperament
for instance

scotland — characterized by persistently gloomy weather and reserved temperament; northern european country

eeyore — the donkey in winnie the pooh, defined by constant melancholy and pessimism

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