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The place you end up when two people argue and you were just standing there.

means Crossfire is the overlapping lines of gunfire from two or more directions — and by extension, being caught between two opposing sides of any conflict.

from A straightforward 19th-century compound of 'cross' and 'fire,' built from military language describing gunfire that crosses from different directions to converge on a target. It stayed literal — artillery and rifle fire crisscrossing a battlefield — before it drifted into the figurative, where the crossing lines became arguments, accusations, or questions, and the target became whoever got stuck in the middle.

origin
Literal term for intersecting gunfire lines
usage shift
Now mostly means innocent bystander syndrome
cnn show
Named a political debate program after it, fittingly
survival tip
Being neutral rarely gets you out of it
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