the.com/con artist
Someone who steals your money and makes you thank them for it.
means A swindler who gains your trust through charm or deception specifically in order to cheat you out of money or valuables.
from Short for 'confidence artist' or 'confidence man,' a term that emerged in 19th-century America — specifically tied to a famous 1849 New York case where a well-dressed swindler named William Thompson would approach strangers, chat them up, then ask, 'Have you confidence in me to trust me with your watch until tomorrow?' People, charmed, handed it over — and never saw it again. Newspapers dubbed him 'the Confidence Man,' and the phrase stuck as a label for anyone whose weapon is trust itself rather than force. 'Con' became shorthand soon after, and 'artist' was added to credit the skill involved — swindling well is, after all, a performance.
- core skill
- Not lying, but making you want to believe
- best targets
- Smart people, who trust their own judgment most
- real currency
- Confidence, not cash, hence the name
- classic tell
- Urgency, they never give you time to think