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The sex talk, named by parents too chicken to say the real words.
means A euphemism for explaining sex and reproduction to children, usually through vague nature metaphors instead of direct anatomy.
from The phrase borrows the image of birds laying eggs and bees pollinating flowers as gentle stand-ins for sexual reproduction. The exact coinage is murky, but the idea traces back to a 19th-century poem by Samuel Taylor Coleridge referencing birds and bees in a romantic context, and the phrase as a parenting euphemism solidified in English usage by the early 20th century. No single inventor is documented — it's the kind of phrase that accumulated meaning through repeated, nervous use rather than being 'coined' by anyone in particular.
- origin
- coined by a poet dodging the word intercourse
- actual biology
- bees reproduce nothing like humans do
- irony
- explains babies by talking about pollen and flowers
- modern use
- now shorthand parents use to stall, not explain