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Arguing about nothing, forever, because admitting you forgot is worse than winning.

means To quarrel repeatedly over petty, trivial things, usually in a drawn-out, snippy back-and-forth.

from From Middle English 'bikeren,' meaning to skirmish or fight, likely echoing the quick, repetitive clatter of blows — the same rat-a-tat rhythm you hear in a petty squabble. Possibly related to Dutch 'bicken,' meaning to slash or attack. What once described actual combat shrank down over centuries into the small-scale warfare of 'you always leave the cap off the toothpaste.'

actual topic
rarely the thing being argued about
win condition
outlasting the other person's patience
peak form
couples arguing in a grocery store aisle
resolution rate
near zero, nobody remembers the verdict
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