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A command wearing a tuxedo so it sounds like a favor.

means An authoritative order or urging — often dressed up to sound like a request, but carrying the weight of someone's will behind it.

from From Old English 'behæs,' a promise or vow, fused with the prefix 'be-' and a root tied to 'hátan' — to command or call. It drifted over centuries from meaning 'a vow one makes' to 'a command one receives,' which is a fitting migration for a word that still blurs the line between asking and ordering.

origin
Old English for a vow or promise, not an order
usage
Always follows at, never stands alone
power move
Lets bosses issue orders while sounding gracious
synonym check
Fancier cousin of demand, same bite
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