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means The ongoing process of growing into or turning into something, or, as an adjective, describing something that suits or flatters a person.

from From Old English 'becuman,' meaning to come to, arrive at, or happen — a fusion of the intensive prefix 'be-' with 'cuman,' to come (a cousin of the modern 'come'). The sense of 'suiting' or 'flattering' grew from the older idea of something 'coming to' or befitting a person — what arrives upon you as if it belonged there. The philosophical sense, the state of perpetual change, leans on the Latin 'fieri' tradition but rides the same English root: to become is simply to keep coming.