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the social superpower that opens doors competence forgot to knock on

means the quality of being warm, friendly, and easy to get along with — a pleasant good-naturedness that makes others feel at ease.

from From Latin amicabilis, "friendly," which traces back to amicus, "friend" — itself rooted in amare, "to love." It reached English through Old French amiable, and along the way got tangled with a cousin word: French aimable, "lovable" (from Latin amabilis). The two senses blurred, so amiable carries a faint echo of both "friendly" and "loveable" — fittingly, since the amiable person tends to be both.

hiring edge
likable beats skilled in most hiring decisions
root word
from Latin amicus, meaning friend
halo effect
warm people get judged smarter than they are
survival trait
friendliness self-domesticated humans over millennia
contagious
smiles trigger mirror neurons in others
for instance

dalai lama — tenzin gyatso, spiritual leader since 1950, renowned globally for warmth and peaceful demeanor across cultures

levar burton — host of reading rainbow (1983-2006) and actor celebrated for genuine warmth and accessibility with fans and communities

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